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I’m Becca Lory Hector—an advocate, author, researcher, consultant, and speaker who is passionate about promoting neurodiversity and inclusivity. My journey has been one of discovery, resilience, and embracing my authentic self. From my late-in-life autism diagnosis to creating my own personal development course, my mission is to help others find their path to a fulfilling and self-empowered life.

Whether you’re here to find out more about my journey as a late-identified Autistic, start your own journey, or simply find a community that truly appreciates, uplifts, and motivates you, you’ve found your home.

I invite you to join my dynamic and inclusive community tailored for late-identified Autistic adults, offering you the tools, insights, and support you need to live boldly and thrive while being your authentically Autistic self.

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What does growing up with autism truly feel like? In my new book, “Always Bring Your Sunglasses”, I share my personal journey with autism, offering an intimate glimpse into the sensory sensitivities, social intricacies, and the often misunderstood aspects of living in an autistic body.

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